I've just recently worked up the courage to start talking to girls and so far this year I've go on two dates with two different girls. Both went really well and made out on the date but haven't been able to push further. I work with guys older than me. Guys in their thirties and forties(I'm 24) and they always talk about spitting game and "I'd smash her, this and that". They make it sound they can just will it and they'll be able to take a girl home and fuck. But with these two girls it doesn't seem that simple. The second one I'm still seeing, the first one didn't work out. I took them on dates, was flirty and playful and sweet to them. Basically being prince charming with them. But I'm wondering if I need to less sweet and more for lack of a better term fuckboy? The reason I brought up hooking up not being so simple is both these girls were older and single moms. This current girl is cute and I kiss her every time I see her but she always holds back. She smiles and she obviously likes it but she hesitates. I can never hold a kiss longer than a few seconds before she pulls back. I still live with my folks, and either her mother or her kids are always home. So my options are very limited in trying to hookup with her. It was the same thing with the last girl. Any tips on what I should work on or try?