We went to a legit Music venue with thousands of people jumping up and down to beautiful house music. It was a younger crowd but there were plenty of people in their 30s and 40s to where you don’t feel out of place. I am 42male. I’m really starting to have fun now and am talking far less about all of the mess. My divorce is high conflict with child custody litigation underway. Total costs approaching 90k.

Getting very close to the one year mark now. Last May is when my STBX attempted to have me arrested for domestic violence. The few months before this she began to record our arguments and was attempting to paint me a bad light. I was told by some of the recipients of the videos that she was doing this. Anyways her calling the cops on me was the last straw which led me to hire my attorney and prepare for the divorce.

The last twelve months were so hard. I still lived at the marital property up to march of this year. And I lived with her twisted teen daughter who became weapozined against me. I made a vow that the next twelve months will be far better than the last and we are off to a great start. Child custody is now under the control of court appointment expert evaluator. My case is high conflict lol. As a result no dating until the very least I get my custody orders. Still nowhere near ready for real romance anyways.

I was forced to wait to file due to some paper I needed to move around (divorce planning). I would have filed last year at this time if I could have. So I guess it’s basically a year out. Whatever hopes I had that she would straighten out and get some help are all gone now. My friend groups have changed dramatically from the married people to the ever growing single crew. I basically do whatever I want on my free days and am super dad when I have my little ones with me.

Cheers to being single. Cheers to NOT having to simp on social media for the obligatory Mother’s Day post. Cheers to all the fun events I’ll be attending without an aggressive and sloppy drunk who would embarrass me and ruined my time. CHEERS TO BEING FREE FROM TOXICITY