If you have loved and attached to someone who is in the top 1 percent in terms of career, status, money, etc. (particularly renowned scientist), and you are younger…

Is there hope… to reset the benchmark??? To heal?

This benchmark is simply unattainable if I want someone within a reasonable age difference. And I do not want to compare my partner to a past unrealistic standard. And I do not want to be hung up on someone forever and live in misery.

Is there a way out?