How to chill between meetings?

I'm a person who is average at internet dating, but when it comes to meeting - it's great.

Women often come back charmed by me and demand more meetings.

Unfortunately, I'm a bit of a golden retriever type of guy and after a few meetings I start to get too involved. I start talking a lot, proposing meetings, organizing a million things at once.

Instead of letting the rabbit chase, I stand openly in the field....

Unfortunately, as it happens nowadays, being involved makes women bored....

Any pro tips on how to change this in yourself?

PS - I know, I need to meet with many women, yet I am not able to carve out time for more than one....

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