As we all know... getting a girl is hard these days. Its tough out there! What with the tinder, and the porn, and the e-thots, and the single moms, and the evil women, and the soy, and the shitty dads, and the absolute deficit of masculine role models looking to assist a dumb unguided soul such as yourself in the real world.

So most guys try to get girls the laziest (and safest) way possible. Either online, at work, or having friends hook you up with something they don't want. Just eager as all hell to settle, and start their new hellish chapter in life. Instead of being alone and free, they willingly attach themselves to an ever fattening parasite that will increasingly take what little coolness they had to begin with and turn them into your own unhappy father! Gasp!

The live in a horrifying prison of scarcity, with their own pride serving as the warden. They have no clue that they have the ability to talk to any woman at any time, no matter how sexy she make think she is. So they do what is known as the path of least resistance, they try to get with anything even remotely cute within their monotony of existence. Getting with some girl online, or at work, or that a friend set you up with because they knew you were too pathetic to set one up themselves.

On top of all this, they obviously have crippling escalation anxiety. This leaves our "hero" with the obvious lazy, cowardly tactic of making the girl give you all the green lights. I have been here many times before and I can tell you that there are indeed girls horny and bored and desperate enough to do all the heavy lifting to sex and a relationship, and you will have earned yourself a mediocre girlfriend. With a 99.9% chance of her becoming resentful, dominating, and overall generally highly unpleasant.

Do we all know why?

Because...... the whole entire setup was inverted. Totally ass backwards to the way that women want to get into a relationship! Since the root of the relationship was bad, its fruit shall be bad.

Girls want to get swept off their feet. They want a strange masculine man from an exotic land to unapologetically want to put a baby in her with the upmost of roughness and passion. You will never find the cream of the crop women from the internet. Internet girls are trash! If they were not trash then they would not be on dating sites, end of story. Falling in love with the cute girl at work is also a terrible idea, you give her too much of your power everyday pining over her. Constantly looking for ways to get her attention. If you really want to get her attention, then get a girlfriend.

There is no downside to hitting on girls out in the world. If it doesn't go well, so what? You'll probably never see them again, and if you do, then don't be a weenie, try her again! You do not need to join some club or work some job with lots of women around to get girls. Girls are everywhere! They are at grocery stores, they are at target, they are at the park, they are at bars, they work at those tiny little hut coffee shops. Go out and talk to them, try to learn about them, ask if they have a boyfriend. Its not that difficult. You are the one that is preventing yourself from getting the girl you want. Since you now know that you are the one stopping yourself, you can now change and be that one that goes and gets women! Amazing!

Why on gods green earth would you want some fat lame girl to be a part of your life? The girl you want, is the girl you see out there when your shopping. You know in one second that you want her, follow that momentum to talk to her. This works so well because a) you see her, you know exactly what she looks like and b) you have shown her already that your not afraid to express your feelings to her and that makes you more courageous than 90% of dudes out there. Plus you get to go home and tell yourself how cool you were, without lying to yourself this time, that you did something brave. Something that you've always wanted to do.

All the best quality girls are not on social media and dating sites desperately looking for validation. They are right out your door. Too shy to talk to the guys they like, they need a man to talk to them. These square girls who don't like to party much, don't like to be too outgoing at first, the so called nerdy girls. These are the top tier girls, these are the girls with higher odds for loyalty and bonding to you and low miles. These are the girls that will look up to you and think how cool you were to be so fearless to hit on her in broad daylight without even having to be piss drunk! What a guy!

Do yourself and all your friends a favor and stop letting your pride run (ruin) your life. Your not that important, and as a solution to offer, I use a mantra. I tell myself, Either in my mind or out loud, "I am nothing." I repeat it with a controlled inhale and exhale, around 5 times. This helps me to center myself and reduce my fear of rejection or failure. This works because, how could I feel fear or rejection or pain if I am indeed nothing? You only experience fear of rejection because you think you're something, you think you're something really grand, and when you get rejected, the illusion you have been living in has suffered a blow from reality. Thus hurting the insulation you hide yourself in. Not quite what you want to be experiencing when you're trying to get her phone number.

So go out and talk to the girls you want. You don't need magic game or something perfect to say. You just need the confidence to know that you can hold a conversation after you ask her a personal question. If you know nothing at all, then just make small talk and ask if she has a boyfriend. Have some balls and get the conversation into the world of "I'm interested in you." Asking that simple question will guarantee that the conversation can stop being about boring small talk and move to fun sexual tension! At the very least she is going to go tell all her girlfriends how this crazy guy asked her out. A far better result than the regret you'll be feeling from not trying and thus having to jerk off, yet again, to "big tits" porn.

Thanks for reading.