How to deal with a 0 sense of humor girl?

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-07-25T14:00:51+00:00

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Verile-Net7992 · 2024-07-25T07:48:23+00:00

Humor is important to me and I've gone on dates with a handful of girls who match the same kind of description as this girl you're describing - needless to say this would leave me feeling incomplete in the long run and things have either ended up not working out or I've had to cut things off with her.

It seems like humor is important to you and you shouldn't have to 'deal' with someone who doesn't match your needs, but rather you'd do well with someone who could appreciate or even reciprocate your killer jokes. And it sounds like her conversations to you are quite mundane which is never a good thing

TL DR; she isn't your type, find someone else who can appreciate humor/good conversation as it's important to you

Cupcake_Trap · 2024-07-25T07:15:57+00:00

Some things can’t be forced. Maybe she’s not the right fit for you. And that’s ok.

daddyvow · 2024-07-25T07:58:29+00:00

I don’t. It’s not gonna work out if she can’t laugh at my dumb jokes.

Thierr · 2024-07-25T07:46:04+00:00

It simply sounds like you guys aren't a match.

It doesn't even sound like you actually like her... So why date her

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-07-25T12:47:38+00:00

Have fun with that.

cougomdd · 2024-07-25T08:34:43+00:00

The question is why are you looking to date a girl who doesn't have a sense of humor? Being pretty is fun for two minutes, but if you can't laugh with her, well...

cougomdd · 2024-07-25T08:36:55+00:00

The question is why are you looking to date a girl who doesn't have a sense of humor? Being pretty is fun for two minutes, but if you can't laugh with her, well...

DaygameCode · 2024-07-25T11:00:28+00:00

That's because you two aren't compatible. The problem is you still dating a woman who doesn't match your vibe. Don't you have options? You need to raise your standards. You sya that she only talks about mundane topics and other boring shit.

Why would you want a girl who is boring and gets easily offended? If the roles were reversed any girl would immediately distance herself and tell ou she doesn't see the relationship working out. Why aren't you the same?

Seems needy to keep dating a girl who isn't the exact type of woman that you want specilally when it bothers you that she doesn't match your vibe. Why would you wanna spend the rest of your life with someone who is like this?

This is not something that can be fixed, you simply are not a match. The problem is you trying to force comaptibility instead of realising that there will other girls who you will also like but who are an actual match. Scarcity mindset is what you have, holding onto one girl who you aren't fully happy with instead of looking for new girls.

nomadiclives · 2024-07-25T11:43:53+00:00

You don’t

SameSamePeroAnders · 2024-07-25T07:24:03+00:00

You sound young. She is probably wondering why you making jokes instead of escalating to sex.

Sharp-Safety-9260 · 2024-07-25T07:38:51+00:00

I date a lot of asians and they’re like this. I always joke around with the boys and western girls but just kept it to pure attraction with asians.

You could have the same approach with this girl

jamnoNewEpoch · 2024-07-25T08:54:33+00:00

AUTISM.

If I am correct, than you have to change the way you deal with her completely. She understands logic, not abstract clues / hints / jokes. But she also has emotions and is likely suffering because she has problems adapting to society. Situation like this can lead to rabbit hole of consequences like social anxiety, depression,....

But I may be wrong and she is just plain boring with mundane life. Good luck.

Title	How to deal with a 0 sense of humor girl?
Author	stal11
Upvotes	11
Comments	21
Date	July 25, 2024 6:37 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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