He's overall super sweet, but there has been some events that make me want to question our relationship. Its been 2 years since we started dating and it was pretty good, but I've been assaulted a few months ago and he reacted in a stupid way. He couldnt take care of me because the situation was too hard fir him. Every time something bad happens to me, I end up supporting and caring for him because he's too weak and cowardly (his sayings). A few days ago, I woke him up because I was having an incredibly disgusting nightmare (incest, torture, death etc...) and he startes humping me half awake. When I asked him to stop, he said he never did it in the first place and fell asleep. The morning after, he acted like nothing happened and then told me he was sorry and he thought it was a dream. He later admitted he was lying to get out of the situation. Mind you, thats the same kind of things my abuser did last time and the same kind of shitty justifications. I completely broke down, i felt so betrayed, not so much by his action (he often has uncontrolable movements when he's sleepy), but by the fact he lied to me the same way my abuser did, and fucking knew about it. I wanted to break up but it was too much and he conviced me he would change, again. But he lied to me yesterday, told me he wouldn't drink (we're in vacation with some friends), but still did. Hes not a alcoholic, its just that he hasn't pleasured me in a long time (i do), and can't when he drinks. He had the balls to tell me he meant "not end up wasted" and blamed it on the drinks I left in the table. Idk what to do, he can be so sweet and interesting, but I don't trust him anymore. How could I handle the situation?
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