Hey - I joined this sub like 10 years ago when I was single and lonely AF, after reading The Game, and I just wanted to offer some encouragement after a decade of life experience to the guys who are in here because they're also lonely.

My last serious gf before I met my wife was in 2020, and I got her with The Game shit. She was stupid-hot, a med school student, and an absolute psycho [stuck a gun in my face once thinking it was funny, and then either faked a pregnancy or actually aborted my kid, I'll never know].

After her I did more Game things and hooked up with a series of 40-year old women, and that was also super fun, but I reached a point where I realized, "I don't really need to do this anymore," and I'd gotten it out of my system.

To be honest, I cringe a little bit at the way I behaved in my 20s as a result of the "tactics" I learned here and employed, but don't regret it because I had fun, and I don't judge anyone for doing the same. The main reason I got into it was because I wanted to be able to talk to the woman I envisioned I might meet someday without fear.

And then my now-wife showed up, and I didn't really need to do anything. She came after me without me even trying...I actually resisted her for a bit and would have missed her if Russia hadn't attacked Ukraine. But she is the best thing that's ever happened to me. I love the shit out of her, and I've never looked back.

So to the lonely guys in your 20s....keep doing this for a bit, and get it out of your system so you don't have second thoughts when the right one shows up.

To the guys in your late 20s and early 30s...don't give up a good thing just to bang more sloots. If you're looking for the right one, she'll probably find you, and you won't have to trick her into living you.

Good luck.