I 35M met this girl 25M at a bar. She was from out of town visiting and leaving the next morning. I had to leave to meet some other friends so after a brief conversation I left after exchanging our phone numbers.

She texted me in the morning saying she will come back to my city the next weekend. She was cool with staying at my place for the weekend. We both understand it’s gonna be something casual, just for the weekend.

But she cancelled 3 weekends in a row.

I stopped texting her after the 3rd cancellation.

A month later she texts me telling me she’s free to visit this weekend. However, I’m travelling for the next 30days. So once again we won’t be meeting.

She has booked her train for 30days from now (she shared the ticket with me).

How do I keep the spark alive for these 30 days?

Do I text her everyday? But that seems pointless. I usually run a fast game and don’t spend days/weeks texting without meeting in person. And even if we do meet in person, I end things if things aren’t escalating/progressing sexually.