How do you make the decision to leave? We have kids and a home together… we have both changed in different directions so much she wants a roommate type relationship because “its the kids time” i want an actual relationship. We have one kid together, my older kids wish i would leave her. She don’t laugh don’t joke don’t flirt. I have gone to therapy tried to get her to join. She wont. I feel like at 35 im wasting the last of my prime… she cooks we share duties and usually have peace, the intimacy is minimal, she dont like to cuddle or hug and kiss for long at all… no sex just a routine scheduled bj, its like im here for the financial security and thats my payment.