Hysterical bonding

adrianmonologovich · 2025-02-07T13:32:29+00:00

>8 year old girl together so i cant go full ghost on her.

you can if you are ready to accept consequences, other people always count on your predictability,

>Hysterical bonding

well if you know the term then you know more than only this. Just look out for more about this Voldermort and keep reading/watching.

Moms_Sketti88 · 2025-02-06T17:14:37+00:00

I get in this same rut. We’ve been separated under the same roof for almost two years since I announced I wanted a divorce. Now that the wheels are moving and we are looking at finally being done before the summer comes, I get this feeling of guilt and maybe it’s a trauma bond of sorts. It’s hard to let go of the fact I won’t see my kid everyday, I’ll be dead broke and won’t own a home anymore. We had a child out of wedlock in our early 20s. We went from living in her parents house, to an apartment and me finishing school, to moving away for a career I built. We went from rags to riches in a sense.

I’ll miss the consistency of my life, but won’t miss her toxic behavior and my dread of being around her. She became more like an annoying sibling than that of a wife. It was hard to have romantic attraction to someone who was short fused, abusive on random occasions or during arguments, was bad with money, super lazy, and gained a ton of weight. It’s still hard though. I was served paperwork via opposing counsel, although I thought her and I were going to do this ourselves and have an attorney I hired to file the settlement with the clerks office.

FYI, my wife also didn’t want things to end. Her methods of begging me to stay were toxic though (physical rage fits and threats).

I’m here to talk man if you ever want. Your post was exactly how I was feeling on my drive to lunch.

TXJohn83 · 2025-02-06T15:33:41+00:00

Cat is out of the bag... she is planning a split now even if you can't see it... you might try couples therapy, but you need to have your lawyer on speed dial and be ready for crazy.

Several-Eagle4141 · 2025-02-06T15:26:55+00:00

Take the power back. Don’t let her use her pussy as a weapon to control you

Title	Hysterical bonding
Author	Normal-Employee-5618
Upvotes	12
Comments	12
Date	February 6, 2025 3:18 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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