Moving

Pleasant-Mechanic-49 · 2025-07-06T14:24:16+00:00

⚠️DO NOT LEAVE THE HOUSE⚠️ unless a judge orders it or sined agreeemnt near divorce is approved by your lawyer. Repeat that to yourself 10 x. Seriously.

Here's why:

Once you're out, she becomes the primary caregiver by default. You're suddenly the "weekend dad." or "walking purse"
Her 👹lawyer might tell her to drag this divorce out for years for Free housing and financial support
BUT If you stay, she'll want to speed up the divorce
Worst case: You pay for a house while she brings in the new BF (real example: Sarah Jane parkinson bring home his BF with his 3 kids)
Don't fall for her suggestion, claiming it's better for everyone/kids. She will only benefit it. Remember, kids often recall the parent who left
🚨 If she to forces you out, demand financial compensation or virtual rent since you're still paying for the property & need to pay another rent. This makes her think twice about exploiting the situation.
Do NOT move out in her state/country near her family, it is a trap . Plus, you will be stuck for years in that region if you want to see your kids. Know the laws on parental relocation. Many limit non-custodial parents from moving far without permission

Only exception: If she's violent or has mental issues, and you're at risk of bogus domestic violence accusations & & TRO strike( i.e. a judge telling you to get out).. If so, Read t Silver Bullet Divorce Method/Protective order

bluephotoshop · 2025-07-06T14:14:56+00:00

If you have kids, moving out before a child custody agreement is in place can be seen as abandonment.

rsmiley77 · 2025-07-06T14:04:53+00:00

Depends. Do you own the home you’re living in? Kids? If so moving out now will put you behind if you want to keep living in the home. Doesn’t sound like that’s an issue with you and it’s free so I don’t think there’s much downside.

Title	Moving
Author	Normal-Employee-5618
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	July 6, 2025 1:58 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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