Met a cute girl for a coffee today. The was started off very poorly and then I suggested taking a walk. Tried brushing my hands while we walk and went for the hand hold, she pushed back. She also mentioned that she doesn’t sleep until after the second or third date. I escalated regardless and touched her tattoos and tried palm reading. She mentioned that she just slept with 2 people so far. We both enjoyed the date ( or she acknowledged so), but she threw in a don’t ruin it by going for a kiss. I said , I was not going to and ended the date with a big hug.

I hesitantly , knowing that I screwed up, sent her a text that I enjoyed the date and would like to do this some other time. To my surprise , she responded and I asked what I wanted to do. I suggested that we watch a horror movie ( knowing she was scaredy cat ), hoping that I could comfort her , go for the kiss, third base, and eventually f**k her.

She agreed to meet me at the movies about 30 minutes away.

I thought I messed up? Most of my successful dates are not like this, I didn’t even expect to hear back from her ? What went right and what went wrong. How do I f**k close this ?