I'm 32 and my divorce finalizes this Thursday. This experience has made me realize I want better quality relationships in all aspects of my life - friends, family, and romantic partners. My wedding day highlighted issues with my mom, ex-wife, and even friends, causing unnecessary stress.

I'm tired of being surrounded by people who often involve me in problematic situations. While I acknowledge I'm not perfect, I crave more positive influences.

Has anyone else gone through similar reflections post-divorce? I'm considering joining the Air Force for a sense of direction and stable income - something my parents lacked. Is this a typical response, or am I having a midlife crisis?

I'd appreciate hearing others' experiences or advice on improving life quality and finding direction post-divorce.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​