I'm seeing the light at the end of a long tunnel, just gotta sell the house after almost 21 years of marriage and have the judge finalize the divorce papers. STBX and I rented it before we bought it 18-19 yrs ago. What would be my marriage anniversary is in 3 weeks and I'm hoping the judge finalizes on that day also. I know that I'll replace certain dates that we (Stbx and i) shared like her bday, date we met with other dates that only I'll remember that happened to me- date she left, date I was served. I know I'm still planning on really drinking on that anniversary date. For the guys on here who's divorce has been finalized, I was wondering if you celebrate in some way on either the marriage anniversary and/or finalized date? And if so how?