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Any divorced men who would play this when you pull into your ex-wife’s driveway?

SolomonicScrotum

September 26, 2024
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Song is titled: F My BM https://youtu.be/CYmmIInFTCg?si=sdH9n-qVi81AK2mp

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Title Any divorced men who would play this when you pull into your ex-wife’s driveway?
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SolomonicScrotum

Upvotes 0
Comments 8
Date September 26, 2024 5:22 PM UTC
(1 year ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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[–]Zealousideal-Let1344 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not a fan of my ex-wife. But I'm not this low class

[–]alabama_donkeylips 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Antagonizing, childish shit just creates more problems. It's not conducive to healing. Rise above the pettiness, stay cold and indifferent to her, and just live your best life.

[–]Reflog1791 3 points4 points5 points 1 year ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Meeting at a neutral location halfway between the dwellings (grocery store parking lot) solved all these problems for me. 

It’s not even something you have to go to court over. You can just insist on it as it is very common and reasonable. 

[–]itoocouldbeanyone 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Have you had any problems with the kid fighting changing parents and the burden falling on you instead of the other taking over?

I’m on the fence between store or individual houses

[–]Reflog1791 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No. I made my house peaceful and joyful. I went out of my way to introduce myself to the neighbors with kids. I have firm rules related to tablet use and chores. My house is fun as shit but if kid acts up the consequences are go to your room until you are ready to rejoin the fun. I’ll even go up there after 15 minutes, soothe the kid, and say ok are you ready to come back down? We’re gonna pull out the matching game!

Kid likes mom’s house just fine. The established routine long ago is that transitions etc are not up for discussion that’s just the way it is. Any problems early on were responded to like this “I know it’s hard to have 2 houses sometimes but that’s just the way it is. We are a family that makes the best of it.” 

Overall the posture is just I’m gonna make my time with the kid as joyful as possible and I will do nothing to make time at moms worse. I don’t talk ill about mom for any reason ever. I don’t care if mom talks ill about me because I’m doing everything to the best of my ability and I trust kid’s discernment about my abilities as a parent. Most of all I shower kid with love. 

The hard part was letting go of any control at mom’s house. I learned through a troubling experience years ago that the authorities view of problems at moms are “no bruise, no case.” 

With that information I just listen and nod about stories at moms. The only thing I control is what happens in my home. So I make the best of it and focus on it.

[–]itoocouldbeanyone 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thank you for the in depth response. I’ll stick to the store swap meetup.

[–]Reflog1791 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Forgot to mention I always give reminders like, “ok we’re headed to moms in an hour” and “ok let’s wrap it up we need to be out the door in 10 minutes.” It’s standard now just like getting the kid out the door for school. There’s no debate about it it’s just what has to happen.

[–]TXJohn831 point 1 year ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Love it! It seems like a song from a bad hangover movie... But I would never play it while in public much less around the ex.

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