Maintaining a long term talking stage while she is away

grldgcapitalz2 · 2024-10-06T01:11:48+00:00

ur cooked

Dandys3107 · 2024-10-06T09:03:48+00:00

I think it’s better to suggest to get started when she will be available. These are pretty poor dynamics, making her remember you for 6 weeks, without a possibility to make any major moves. You may date other girls, but it still feels that you are getting oneitis here. Sometimes things are just not going your way, with abundance mindset you should just let them go then.

fnamazin · 2024-10-06T12:31:06+00:00

Breadcrumbs. Talk/call, message every few days or so. Don't overwhelm.

therealwoujo · 2024-10-06T02:31:41+00:00

Don't.

Move on with your life and talk to other girls.

You are acting from scarcity, not abundance.

appolonysian · 2024-10-06T01:19:52+00:00

On the app, ask when she’s planning on being back in town. After she says when, say “shoot me your number and we’ll celebrate your return” or some dumb shit like that.

Then just let things go. Maybe she’ll think about you, maybe she won’t. Either way, you can then reach out a few days before and set a date. So long as you’ve vibed and she’s into you, you don’t need to put a lot of effort into keeping a lead warm. If anything, your absence will help you out.

bjm0987 · 2024-10-06T02:44:54+00:00

I hate these comments because they just tell people to quit. I knew this comment was coming which is why I said I’m also dating other girls. When you advance through your game you can sometimes find value in being patient with things, but it does come with the caveat that you need to be hyper aware when you are simping.

Practical-Macaroon38 · 2024-10-06T05:42:46+00:00

You need to be content with her potentially moving on or forgetting about you on her return, especially if you haven’t met up yet or have a strong connection with her.

The best approach is to get her number or add her somewhere & then say that you guys should see each other & do something fun when she gets back. Then leave it at that. After those 6 weeks (you can even text a little bit before her last day there) hit her up again & plan something out.

There’s a chance that she might be tired from travel & will want to settle in a bit, so I wouldn’t plan the day of when she’s back, but if she responds kindly then just go from there.

I’d say you can text a little back & forth every few days or so, if you already built a pretty strong base & there’s some strong chemistry there, but don’t go overboard with in-depth daily updates or she’ll get bored & won’t look forward to getting to know more about you when she gets back.

You don’t want her thinking that you’re some guy that was keeping track & counting down the exact days until she’s back, with nothing else going on in your life, because then she’ll question if you have other options at all.

Don’t say anything that you’re going to “wait for her” or anything like that either. A part of her brain needs to remain curious & left wondering what you’ve been up to while she was gone. Her absence should have her worried more about you than you should worry about hers.

Title	Maintaining a long term talking stage while she is away
Author	bjm0987
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	October 5, 2024 11:37 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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