As per the title, I'm 38 and wife has told me we are done. I still love her despite her flaws but she is not feeling the same.

If you want to tell me she's sleeping around yadeda, jog on right now and find another thread to troll.

Unfortunately we have grown apart and there is no infidelity in our relationship, we have two lovely children and it genuinely breaks me to know what we are going to have to go through.

If any of my UK redditors are on here and can offer pointers on where to go for financial advice etc I would appreciate it. I am the main earner and know this is going to financially suck, but I don't want to be taken for a ride either.

I have absolutely no idea what is going to come over the following weeks or months and hope that the other side will feel greener after all this pain