This is the 3rd police interaction I have had recently.

*The first time her boyfriend called and reported me for having illegal guns. Cops came and left never having searched the home because they saw on their computer my guns are registered *Next day when I was forced to ring her bell (still my house) he called the cops and accused me of trespassing Despite me never making it to the doorbell as my son came out before ringing it. Again cops came and explain to them that there is no order against me and we have no custody agreement. That exclusive occupancy does not prevent me from ringing my own bell

*Few days later, she files and order of protection filled with lies and deceits. None of them actionable. The only part that constituted domestic violence was one sentence out of 2.5 pages of lies, where she says "he choked me in bed in summer of 2021. We did not even sleep together and we did not have sex all summer long". I proceed to print out 40 pages of her own texts from that summer clearly showing that we did sleep, we had sex all summer long and that she confessed to cheating.

*I bring this to court and make her look like a pathological liar. Her lawyer backpedals on the new and improved negotiations and promised to withdraw the order with prejudice which means she won't ever say these lies again..

***A bit of a backstory. She has filed 3 unsupported CPS reports in the past in full view of my 3+2 kids. Now she has files 3 police actions again in full view of my 3+2 kids. She is a certifiable pathological liar and we share 50/50 custody with me paying child support. Her and her new boyfriend have been trying hard to alienate me for the past few months, but it backfired. My kids now hate him. Lawyer says I can't do anything because the alienation failed and because lying in a order of protection by women is almost always the case.
What do I do? Its been rather nasty. I went from living in roach motels for the first 5 months having rare access, to having my kids 50/50. My life has improved drastically as I started a new Brady bunch. How do people deal with compulsive liars and narcisists?