Hi all Need advice. I am still married to a compulsive and manipulative liar. The various ways she will lie and twist facts are without limits. Last year she filed 3 CPS reports. All my 3 kids and my girlfriends 2 kids had the privilege of being interviewed. All reports were unfounded.
This year she got a new boyfriend. This guy has been running his mouth to my kids. Telling them that I am the liar not her. That I am dangerous and he is there to protect them. That I choked and almost killed their mother. It escalated quickly when he started staring me down at my kids events where he was the number one dad (kids met him in March and he moved in same month).
A month back after a low level exchange, with my objection to picking up one of my kids early, things escalated. They called the cops and reported I have illegal guns. This turned out to be unfounded and the cops left.
Next day when I had to pick up my son, he didn't come out after repeatedly honking. So I go to ring the bell (my house my name still but she got exclusive use) and my son comes out before I ring it. We walk away and the mooch starts yelling "get off OUR porch you shouldn't be here". I let him have it verbally and we drive off. My son then proceeds to tell me about additional alienation. Like "who's team are you on, moms or dads?". Or "I also had a bad daddy". Or "your dad is the liar". He then asks me to go back and confront him. Cops meet me there. Long story is the cops inform them there is no order against me and I was never told to only do curb pickup. Few days pass and we have another incident. I pulled up to grab some stuff from my daughter. She comes up and says "dad he is still talking about you". I yell out and ask him why he targets little kids and why he jumps into my 9 year olds bed to wake him up. Words are exchanged.
Few days later the sheriff's come and seize my legal guns.
The affidavit that looks like a 10 year old wrote it, is ridled with lies and half truths. She pretended she didn't know the guns were legal even though she lived with them and me for years. She even mentions the "choking incident" and claims we were no even sleeping together nor having sex for months. Her own text messages from 3 years ago prove she is a liar. I retained it all and kept it close to my chest. The order of protection is NOT a stay away order just no communication. Stay away would be inconvenient because she would lose her sitter half the time. Her own mother goes through me to see the kids. Her sister same for a few years. Her brothers do not talk to her. I don't know what to do. The court allows her to lie in an affidavit after affidavit and instead of calling her out, they just ignore it. I have had CPS here 3x and police here 3x in full view of 5 kids.