First, I'd like to say that the only term I can accept is humanist. If you don't fight for equality and you need to categorize human, then you are fighting for pure injustice.

Many of what feminists say things like my body my rules (which her rules may end up with a straight man having to pay for the rest of his life for an unwanted pregnancy that ended in a child) and whatever. Despite the equality they crave and their hatred towards toxic masculinity they want a guy who is like that just not with them. They want to protect them and paying both shares etc etc.

But as a gay guy I'm thinking that many women think they deserve things just because they are oh well women. I regard myself to be a straight looking guy (who is somewhat closeted) and I'd like to believe I'm decent looking. I keep on receiving bad behaviors from women that I've rejected (because I'm gay obviously). Or women that ask me out and believe that I'd pay for them. They believe I should be grateful for them taking the first step. But none of them is actually doing anything. As a pedestrian guys tend to stop for me to pass for most of the times but very few women do so.

As a gay guy I'm just immune to all these. I don't want to please women because they are women. I won't pretend to be a knight or whatever, I'm not paying their share, I'm not keeping the doors open for them as some expect or whatever. I may do that occasionally but I do it for men as well.

We're drowning from posts about unequality etc etc but has anybody bothered how hard does a guy work to keep his family?