why do cheaters ALWAYS have multiple partners if nobody "wants" to date them?

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tornteddie · 2024-11-10T15:43:54+00:00

I think there has to be some form of self destructive pattern and they just blow up the relationship by cheating because for whatever reason they think it wont work, theyll get hurt, theyre not adequate enough, whatever the reason may be

0Contact0Indulgence · 2024-11-10T16:07:06+00:00

Because correlation and causation are two different things.

Women would prefer to partner with highly attractive men.

Highly attractive men are the most likely men to cheat, because they can. Sexual access for men is hard to get. Only the top guys can have sex with multiple women in a reliable and consistent fashion.

Women don't want to date cheaters.

Women want to date attractive men. Attractive men can cheat and so they often do.

So, women date cheaters in spite of their promiscuity. Not because of it.

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AdjectiveMcNoun · 2024-11-10T16:15:04+00:00

Cheaters don't typically advertise that they are cheaters when they first start dating someone. Many times the person in a relationship with someone doesn't know they are cheaters, at least not at the beginning.

serene_brutality · 2024-11-10T16:21:57+00:00

Hormones, attraction is a helluva thing. They have charisma and usually don’t have a big problem lying. So even knowing someone is a cheat, people wanna think that they’re special, the exception and more or less choose to believe the lies because they’re attracted to them.

WarViper1337 · 2024-11-10T16:51:58+00:00

I try not to post to much here since it a lady's space but I had a good story relating to this. A young co worker of mine was dating a guy and all was well at first. I saw a picture of them that immediately made me question the nature of their relationship because of the mismatch in attractiveness levels. He was way outside her league. As time went on she discovered he was cheating (no surprise to me) and then she found he kept on cheating with other women despite his constant sweet talking her into staying. The whole time she thought she was the main girl and everyone else was just bimbos trying to get in on her man and then she went for the hail marry and tried to baby trap him into a relationship. Turns it didn't work at all. He wanted nothing to do with the child and left her on the spot and she later found out he has multiple kids from other relationships and can't afford all the child support. She is still a single mom a few years later while he continues to date multiple women (one of them works two doors down from our location) and she is so hung up over him she can't date anyone else. I overheard a conversation with her and other coworkers where she states she would take him back if only he would talk to her.

Title	why do cheaters ALWAYS have multiple partners if nobody "wants" to date them?
Author	milk_and_coins
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Comments	9
Date	November 10, 2024 3:30 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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