It was year ago, and it was the only time i said no, i was in line for cashier, i've noticed woman behind me, i layed my 2 items but before i finished she sligtly pushed me from behind. I did not said anything, before cashier started to scanning, woman in line asked me if i can let her first, because she was in a hurry since she was shopping on her work break, from her own words that she said to the cashier... And i dared to say "No".

Both her and a woman cashier started trashtalking to me, emasculating and making statements about my appearance, since i had long hair, she said that she sees no man in me, and that i am not a real man either, ungrateful, rotten generation, quarter of those words were from the cashier, i was flabbergasted,

after many seconds in silence the only thing i came up with, is just to mirror her words, saying that she is not very feminine either, so she answered that at least she has a husband and kids, so meanwhile cashier as fast as possible scanned two items and i left after payment.

After sharing that story to my mom, the only thing i got besides silent nodding is that i should not call that woman names while i talk about her, since she is a woman and it's not polite.

I still helped women after that, they were kind after and before asking, and even asked by myself if help is needed, it made me feel nice.

But it is really scary to know someone take help from stranger men as granted and goes mad when denied, and she was old enough to have husband and kids.