In this guide I'm going to share the most optimal text to to get a girl to respond in every possible situation. Whether the girl is flaking, ghosting, or just being difficult, I will show you the correct texts that will increase your odds of getting the date.

This guide will be broken down into 5 different scenarios that can arise when you’re texting the girl. They will be in order from easiest to most difficult

Scenario 1: girl ignores your opener

This is probably the first scenario you will encounter. You match with a girl or get her # from cold approach and she doesn’t respond to your first message. Don’t get discouraged. Half the time she probably just forgot to respond. There are two texts that I recommend for these situations.

“Don’t be shy, you can say hi” And “Are you always this talkative”

Both of these are a playful way to tease the girl for not responding and quite often will get her to reply. Here's a real life example

Me: Hey it's Alex from the thing
Girl: (no response)
Me: Are you always this talkative
Girl: hahaha yes :)
Me: Well that's gonna make our love a bit harder
Girl: stoppppp love can be strong without having to text much ;) It's all about the in person connection

Scenario 2: girl ignores your question

Sometimes, a girl will drop off after you ask her a question or after you ask her on a date. Here are two really good takeaways that you can use that will get her to respond.

“Don’t think too hard now” And “Don’t worry, it’s not a trick question”

Both of these can be used interchangeably any time a girl hasn’t responded to your question. Here's a real life example

Me: Anyways, do you like wine?
Girl (no response)
Me: Don't thing too hard now
Girl: haha yes i do like wine. Sorry i missed your message i was helping a friend move

Scenario 3: girl being a bad texter in general

This is for similar situations as the previous scenario, but the difference is, you did not ask a question. The girl is just being a poor texter. Here are two texts you can use

“A woman of few words I see” And “Are you always this talkative”

These are both a playful way of getting her to respond. You are using humor to call out her behavior which comes off much better than if you were serious. Girls actually like a guy who isn't afraid to call them on their shit (assuming he's not butthurt or annoying). Here's a real life example

Me: What would you like to know
Girl: (No response)
Me: thinking very hard i see
Girl: (no response)
Me: are you always this talkative
Girl: ofcoursee hahaha
Girl: hello! how are you

Scenario 4): girl is flaking or dropping off when you try to meet up

This is for when a girl actually flakes on your date, meaning she does not reply on the day of the date or just disappears after the date is set (or even as the date is being set).

“If you’re too nervous, I’d understand”

Is a good way of challenging the girl. Most girls don’t want to come off as if they’re scared so this will prompt them to respond. Quite often these situations can be salvaged afterwards.

“I genuinely didn’t take you for the flakey type”

Is also a great message to send if the girl is being flakey. The psychology is similar. No girl wants to be thought of as “flakey” and so this will often prompt a response, and sometimes even make the girl prove to you that she is not flakey. Here's a real life example:

Me: hey how's it going
Girl: (no response)
Me: Still good for tonight?
Girl (no response)
Me: I genuinely didn't take you for the flakey type
Girl: Hey im really not! I was just really hungover yesterday. I should have texted you
Girl: I apologize for making myself seem that way

Conclusion

The reality is that most guys either give up too early or become way too needy/simpy when a girl doesn’t reply. Persistence can be very attractive as long as you’re not crossing into weirdo/stalker territory.

An important guideline is to wait at least 48 hours before sending any of the texts mentioned in this article. This can make all the difference. Don’t just be bombarding the girl throughout the evening– be smarter than that.

**For other important scenarios and screenshot examples check out the original article

https://firetexts.com/how-to-get-a-girl-to-text-you-back/