I hope this is allowed! To all the mods, I promise I have no intention of breaking any rules.

I think it would be beneficial if more downvotes included comments. I find myself puzzled many times trying to figure out why I'm the world something was downvoted when it doesn't go against RPW, isn't bad advice, or is simply sharing personal experiences. This leads to frustration, because it feels like saying someone is "wrong" without telling them why.

I am always trying to better myself and my relationship...it might just be a me thing, but I would find it so much more helpful if context were given, so I can at least understand why statements may have been seen in a negative light. I hope this makes sense!