I'm not over my ex because I can't find a girl as hot as her again. How can I attract girls who look like her?

incelcon · 2015-09-10T17:02:15+00:00

My Lord, you are something else. You pushed your gf away because you hate your skin tone so much that you were scared that she would leave you for a lighter skinned person??

Girls who go for dark skinned guys aren't well educated or street trash? What?

Please stay single.

machimus · 2015-09-10T17:20:18+00:00

I am a dark skinned guy (same as Tyson Beckford)

I fucking knew it as soon as I read the title. You're the same race troll that's been posting under /u/darkskinnedhell with the same bullshit. Get over yourself.

yizolo · 2015-09-10T21:08:39+00:00

Your skin color is a part of you. You can't change it. Come to terms with it, get over it, and quit allowing it to control you.

You should already be trying to become more masculine, have better game, a better career, and all that other sidebar wisdom regardless of your skin color.

HellhoundsOnMyTrail · 2015-09-10T16:57:57+00:00

The truth is women really don't like dark skinned guys

That's not the truth. That's the reality you are projecting. Your ex liked dark skinned guys.. so there's that.

do mma and lifting

Do that. Also do things where you will meet new women. Once you get out of school it'll become a bit trickier.

lostmatt · 2015-09-10T16:59:34+00:00

The truth is women really don't like dark skinned guys.

Don't use this as an excuse or as a barrier to approaching the kind of women you want.

My advice? Look for ways to get more social validation amongst friends and groups you hang out with. I'm not saying you have to be known as a nice guy.

They probably find you attractive, no problem with your skin color. Unfortunately its stupid stereotypes you are up against-- so you'll need to get your name out there in ways that proves those stereotypes to be wrong.

AlphaAccountant · 2015-09-10T17:12:17+00:00

The truth is women really don't like dark skinned guys

You realize all bodybuilder's who compete are either dark skinned or get spray tanned before a show right?

so I've only really hooked up with fat white girls or fat Hispanic girls despite the fact that I had an excellent physique.

Had? Wtf happened?

My ex was finally a light skinned girl (half white half black, beautiful white skin) who kept herself in shape, pussy didn't smell, good grooming, GOOD EDUCATION AND BACKGROUND. This is extremely important because girls who go for dark skinned guys aren't well educated or street trash.

So you're actively hunting unicorn then? Good luck.

She dumped me because I got too beta and was worried she would leave me because of my looks.

That's cute. You sound insecure.

I have two options to get my type. Start bleaching my skin to become a tad lighter.

Guess we've found the next Michael Jackson.

Or do mma and lifting combined and become hyper masculine.

You should already be lifting.

My career is set and I will be making 100k a year out of college. I'm doing applied math and computer science.

Cool. Won't do shit if you're still insecure about your skin color.

I just need some advice in how I can be attractive to my type without and I need to get to the point where I know I have options with my type. Let me know.

Read the sidebar.

FrameWalker · 2015-09-10T18:47:35+00:00

Some white girls >30% are obsessed with getting back guys.

radianceofparadise · 2015-09-10T22:22:50+00:00

You're using the color of your skin as an excuse for your behavior. Read your post again and you'll see that your color isn't the culprit. It's your beta tendencies. Shit. You're black, right? You're genetically gifted for lifting. Start lifting and stop blaming things you can't change for your behavior.

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