"Because men value sex more than woman at the beginning of a relationship, women tend to be less invested and less needy early in the interaction. When a man approaches her and induces her to become more invested than he is, this is the process of seduction. Once she’s more invested in him than he is in her, sex occurs as a side effect of that emotional investment."

-Mark Manson, Models: Attracting Women Through Honesty

I have a girl, she describes the situation above. I went to aggressive first time out, and never saw her again. However She is emotional over invested. For example she asked me to visit her. Then she said we might not see each other when uni finishes. Then she said I just miss you. I saw her the other day, she gave me a really weird hug. Her face into my face, her hips into mine