Meeting my ex tonight

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-12-06T18:05:18+00:00

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Monty_Mongering · 2024-12-06T17:38:48+00:00

Sounds like she's been dumped and now wants to be pumped.

deplete3 · 2024-12-06T17:38:26+00:00

She fucked other people all summer, and now is using you for attention. You’re going to repeat the same cycle again.

Here’s how to preserve your self respect. Cancel the date and block her number. Move on.

You’re clearly not her first choice.

No_Particular_2117 · 2024-12-06T17:52:56+00:00

smash and then never talk to her again, or lead her on so you can smash multiple times but never get back with this girl

Ballislife1313 · 2024-12-06T17:36:49+00:00

You're about to get laid, have fun

stenberget · 2024-12-06T17:51:24+00:00

You know what to do. “I wanna keep my self respect”.

Cancel. Most likely she’s been fucking around and found out she’s ready to commit.

The perfect opportunity to finally let her go has just presented itself. Last time, she disrupted your life.

Ask yourself would you be okay if she baby trapped you? Tonight could be the night that changes your destiny forever. It only takes one time

No-Razzmatazz-2251 · 2024-12-06T17:39:56+00:00

She will control over your life, tell you what to do, and bang with a bad boy. Move on, level up yourself and avoid this bullshit u described happen ever again.

Winter_Reference_138 · 2024-12-06T17:45:22+00:00

Block her and move on brother. She was probably with some other guy and that ended. Now she’s coming back to the closest available thing. If she wanted you she would’ve stayed the first time.

KingTrey7 · 2024-12-06T17:48:48+00:00

There’s no chance of having a healthy relationship with her again. I understand if you wanna smash or something again, but just know that it would be smart to leave it at that if anything. If you’re actually concerned about your self-respect and confidence you should leave her completely alone and close that door. Then, level yourself up and be the best you that you can be on your own.

Uncle2Drew · 2024-12-06T17:50:27+00:00

I would advise against meeting her tbh, she left you because she probably thought she could find better and it didn’t go well for her so now she is back. She got no respect for you bro

BradFlip06 · 2024-12-06T17:51:05+00:00

You already know what we’re going to say. If she calls you needy and too different from her, while also feeling like she needs space… she no longer respects you. Respect is what maintains masculine standing in the relationship and allows her to feel comfortable following you. Your previous relationship with her had the dynamic all wrong. Let me explain.

Does she adore you? Does she look up at you like you’re Superman? Is she enamored by you? She should be pedestalizing you, not the other way around. If you’re acting needy than you’re pedestalizing her, and if you treat her like a celebrity she’ll treat you like a fan. As soon as she loses her respect for you, it’s difficult to get it back, especially if it was over a long period of time where she is now used to this feeling, like looking down upon you.

So if she never looked at you like she is the luckiest girl in the world, then what were you doing in the first place? Why would you marry someone who doesn’t see you as a king?

And now you want back in after she revealed her true perception of you? You’ll be doing yourself a disservice by treating her like you’re meeting for the first time again, because although she might play along, she knows you’re the same guy she lost respect for previously. And what’s fake eventually falls.

So get flirty, get excited, and have a fun night, but have that dead-end always in sight. No point pursuing it further. Don’t fall for it again.

ssolom · 2024-12-06T17:56:20+00:00

Hell naw, had this recently too. Fuck that bitch...

shittybillz · 2024-12-06T18:02:49+00:00

By initiate I think she means whether you get back together.

It sounds like you're primed for a nice hookup, and you should feel free to initiate the physicality.

My only advice is to keep your emotions in check and not fall for her before she's ready, if she ever is.

Title	Meeting my ex tonight
Author	TestaverdeRules
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	December 6, 2024 5:28 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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