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Asking for book recommendations

Tzampamanos · 2024-12-09T21:32:01+00:00

Any good book recommendations on seduction and game for men?...

Tzampamanos

December 9, 2024

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Title	Asking for book recommendations
Author	Tzampamanos
Upvotes	1
Comments	20
Date	December 9, 2024 9:32 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]Stuckatsevendee 5 points6 points7 points 1 year ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]epimpstyle 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Dwerg1 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]epimpstyle 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

"Inner game" is almost synonymous with "having a good lifestyle" and is based on the belief that if you look good, girls will magically be attracted to you and also you will also know what to say, how to become playful, how to become a "natural" player (without learning "technical stuff"!!!!!). Sounds good such a shortcut, doesn't it?

From the whole "Inner Game" theory I only took out a few concepts like having a good mental state when approaching a girl, being optimistic, having a good vibe - everything else is fluff talk.... Even some of the concepts are BS because they assume that the girl is already "hooked", but show the "abundance mentality" to a girl who is not yet hooked and see if she is still attracted to you. Show indifference to such a girl and see what happens.

A beginner needs practical steps, and technical things like "do this, do that" not to teach him how to think and feel or how to behave when talking to a girl.

Recently I heard that a bootcamp with Mystery and Beckster is three days but on the day1 they teach you what to say + basic things about the "outer game" and in the evening the guy is ready to approach women in a bar. Actually Mystery said that he and Beckster also approach women and later they merge the group of women and the student is placed right in the middle of the women. This is what I call efficiency, not telling the guy: "... go read this book, work on your inner-game and contact me later or maybe in a few years after you have 6 pack abs and a healthy life style".

In MMA, a strong guy with no technique will be beaten by a weak opponent with technique... basketball team with a decent strategy will beat a team with no strategy, a man who learns a workable dating system will do better than he did before he had one.

Here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sSgR8ZqzfnM is a comparison of James Tusk (handsome guy) and Phill Heitlinger (the short one), you will see how the short guy compensates his minus points by having a funny and well-being attitude. How do you do this? Learning jokes and routines/scripts and using them whenever possible, here is again the guy showing two playful things - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mRKFTWJbY_M and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sLLW7hlMF4o without seeing them, you can't be like this (you won't make up your own jokes, you need to be an expert stand-up comedian to make up your own jokes), you need to see someone doing it or learn from somewhere and replicate - these are the "technical" things of being playful but there are a bunch of other things to learn because you need to learn such things, they don't come naturally (what to say, how to continue, how to escalate, seduction concepts that make a conversation more interesting DHV, push-pull, cocky/funny, leading and pacing, scripts/gambits, qualifying, cold-reading, hand games etc etc)

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