"Confused About Starting a Conversation"

Dwerg1 · 2024-12-12T18:52:37+00:00

The reason to start a conversation with them is that you simply want to talk to them and see where that goes. That's all the reason you need.

You don't think that reason is good enough, but it is. Don't make this any harder than it needs to be. Stop talking yourself out of it and start talking yourself into it instead.

KoleSekor · 2024-12-12T19:21:37+00:00

Make an intriguing and playful fun observation about them that they can't really interpret as a good or bad thing but also be able to carry on the conversation and hold your confident vibe for the first few minutes because they'll be very shy. To carry on conversation be curious about what's going on with their life.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-12-12T19:32:37+00:00

If you are confused on how to start a conversation with a girl you like, who is also a human, you won't appear preselected no matter how popular you are.

Back to basics. Say hello and connect on something you observe about her, the surroundings, or mutual situation at hand that you are genuinely interested in. Observe, share, ask...in no particular order. hold the conversation by using conversational threading....taking a key word and branching off of that and repeating so u don't run dry on topics.

Those basics allow you to talk to anyone you want, but like working out...if you stop for too long you go flat. Practice with every type of person, sometimes I go out of my way to talk to random old people to "warm up" for people I actually want to socialize with, this way I can hold my default state when talking to an attractive woman and not be confused on how to talk to her.

AlastairXXL · 2024-12-12T19:52:11+00:00

If they make eye contact it's fine to approach, just ask them what they wanna do with the course

DungusIII · 2024-12-13T06:42:50+00:00

"Hey how's it going/ How you doing?" Then the 2 most important things, Who/What/When/Where/Why & How questions combined with echoing. Then pridefully share your experience. This is something I've always been good at.

They'll say "good", and you ask anything from the W Questions, like "what are your plans for after ___(school/work)" They'll either give a hobby or some shit, or just say "just relaxing" and you can share why you would love to relax or cant relax or whatever, and then if they dont add on, ask another Q related to what they've said or frame it as an assumption "you seem like you're normally busy so it must be good to be able to chill"

So in a nutshell

And always remind yourself if shy or worried to "JUST SAY IT", also this comment has nothing to do with flirting, but for me, in person, body language as always been enough. The convo tips are from Dale Carnegie and sales strategies

cemj86 · 2024-12-13T12:39:21+00:00

How do you know that they like you because they stare at you when you creepily stare at them for months?

How about introducing yourself to then like a normal person, it works every time.

I swear some of these questions shouldn't even be in seduction. They should have a how to be a decent human being 101 sticky

Title	"Confused About Starting a Conversation"
Author	Accomplished_Dish544
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	December 12, 2024 6:31 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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