I have really bad text game on OLD. I dm girls and they don’t respond. I fumble girls who text me first too.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-12-16T22:36:41+00:00

Ok so a little tip; Ask open-ended questions. Those are questions that cannot be answered with one word.

"What is your favorite Harry Potter character?"

Answer; "Snape"

And that's the end of that conversation. Boring.

Bright_Type_7756 · 2024-12-16T21:17:51+00:00

Idk what you should say exactly but i can tell you from experience you playing a little too safe. Like i can imagine those type of questions being chores to answer

DungusIII · 2024-12-17T04:04:53+00:00

Im really only a month into dating after my breakup, but I've learned after getting a quick string of multiple dates +1 hookup that the ones who are interested in you will make it easy. If they are a challenge, most likely they don't want to go out. I can DM what I usually say if you want. After getting help from the guys in here, I've found what works for me. Don't worry, I'm no PUA or grifter lmao. I just wanna pass on what I've learned from people here and my experiences

Dry-Programmer-4860 · 2024-12-16T21:33:21+00:00

Do u actually care what their favourite Harry Potter character is? Or just trying to make a conversation?

Ask what u “actually” want to know.

newchance42 · 2024-12-17T18:47:00+00:00

For every message you send, she's got 25 other guys in her inbox, probably having the same conversation. For me personally, I know that on average for every 10 conversations I have through text, 9 of them are going to drop off. It's a numbers game. Don't put so much weight on the conversation and keep it light. If you are struggling to have a conversation with a woman, they can smell it like blood in the water.

Try asking open ended questions. Asking the question "What do you get really passionate about?" is a pretty loaded question. If she is into you, be prepared for a wall of text. When you respond, give her an answer that gives her the opportunity to ask more like "Yeah I like hiking but since I moved here I've been too busy with work to do anything". This gives her a couple openings to ask more. If she is not interested you will get a "that's nice" or "cool". That's your queue to give her a "well it was a pleasure meeting you" and move on.

Bigboy7252 · 2024-12-18T01:14:49+00:00

Try out new shit sometimes who cares, be polarizing sometimes I just got blown out because the girl didn’t realize I was flirting and I don’t give a fuck. I’ll match with hundreds more anyway. Even if they message you first you can say one wrong thing and fuck it all up so stop caring as much. I’ve had so many girls message me first and it goes no where in the end even after a good conversation. There are so many girls on there that are not even trying to meet you regardless of whether or not they find you attractive or not they just look to fuck around and get validation.

Dandys3107 · 2024-12-18T12:03:09+00:00

Remember that with apps your photos are the most important feature. In terms of texting game, it feels like your topics are just too generic, not triggering any emotions, not being unique or honest in any way. Instead try to be more creative, appeal to girl with some challenge or interesting feedback, make topics more relatable to life situations or your potential relation. It's not about exchanging information, you need to try to elevate the energy, have fun and check if two of you would be a good match, if there is some synergy and you can vibe together naturally.

Title	I have really bad text game on OLD. I dm girls and they don’t respond. I fumble girls who text me first too.
Author	BashingReds
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	December 16, 2024 7:53 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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