How to maintain casual relationships?

chips_and_hummus · 2024-06-14T20:40:35+00:00

either be casually exclusive or move on and find someone who wants to be casual and non-exclusive. it’s likely that the women you’re sleeping with are not into a casual relationship with other people involved (in which case there’s nothing you can do about it’s, it’s a personal preference thing). the other options are you’re not good enough in bed for them to want to maintain that kind of relationship with you, or you bring it up in a way that puts them off.

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-06-14T22:48:16+00:00

Don't tell them you're hooking up with other people. Just say you're not looking for anything serious.

CrazyRepulsive8244 · 2024-06-14T23:30:21+00:00

There's really no reason to ever discuss that, unless asked. If they're asking you, and get bothered by it, then it was quickly becoming very not casual

azrael117_ · 2024-06-15T04:28:58+00:00

I assume LJBF means "lets just be friends". If that's the case then maybe its a health safety issue, so make sure you don't catch anything and communicate that.

Also after sleeping together do you do after care?

InstructionAbject763 · 2024-06-16T03:06:39+00:00

As a woman who maintains casual relationships

Be kind

But don't ask personal questions

You wanna know just enough and trust just enough to sleep with them and be able to be an effective communicator

Men hate this, but a casual relationship is still a relationship with rules and boundaries. And often you do have to do some level of maintenance. It's casual, but you can't just always ignore someone then be like wyd.

The best ones imo are the ones filled with desire and flirting

But a lot of dudes make the mistake of thinking it's the emotional connection women get and not the skill of sex he has that draws women back for more rounds

I am always annoyed at the men who claim casual then wanna get to know the real me or whatever.

So, if you want casual, keep it casual. Don't be a boyfriend. Don't act like one. Don't pretend to care more than you do.

Bit also don't forget that it's still a relationship. Not a top priority or important one, but one where the other person still deserves respect and to have their boundaries respected

Ie, my men know not to bother me with their emotions and vice versa. There's fun, but we don't use each other as emotional support animals like many men have casual sex for

AdSensitive6324 · 2024-06-14T20:30:26+00:00

be tall. Short toilets who are responsible for bringing short men in the world need to be thrown in jail.

itsBonnBonn · 2024-06-15T06:55:51+00:00

I hate casual relationships lol

Especially if our sex is bomb…

But as far as your situation… would u wanna dip ya stick in somebody today, that could have been fucked by someone else yesterday?

Thats what i think about lol… lets end this now before i pull up and beeeet u and ya extra up…

Ladies… lets stop lying about what we want pls…thx

Careful-House6328 · 2024-06-14T21:31:24+00:00

Have a big dick

Title	How to maintain casual relationships?
Author	BashingReds
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	June 14, 2024 8:00 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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