So I wanna keep this short, because if I got into the details it would take way too long.

I used to really be into webcam models, but have since moved on. There was this one who lives near me and she knows it, and I tipped her, made her cum and become submissive to me. Once I got her snapchat we started talking a lot, but I was still beta and put her on a pedestal. But I'm a Dom and she's my type of submissive, so she was really into what I was doing (I can really turn girls on once I get them to be submissive to me).

Anyways, it was all flirting, and I was expecting to meet her, we teased about it and actually made plans to meet at a club one night, but she didn't show up. It was fine because I learned from it and actually got a hotter girl's number.

To keep it short, she was into me, for a month or 2 after I stopped "tipping" even (I never really tipped that much). Then I started to get way too needy, and it was obvious. I was realizing this, but didn't know how to come back from it, so after she ignored a couple of my messages, I just went dark. I looked at her snaps off and on for a week or two, she only sent one more to me personally (which I ignored), then she only posted to her story. Then I went completely dark, my phone has been fucked up anyways and I haven't really cared to use snapchat.

This is where it gets interesting. I had two webcam site accounts (on the same site, call them A and B), but only used one snapchat account. One model who's snapchat I got (camgirl B) sent me a random message pointing out username A, when I paid her from username B. I figured only the submissive would know, and I thought they might be talking. It was after I got her message that camgirl A sent me a snap. This was before I went completely dark.

I get no snaps from camgirl A for 3-4 weeks, but get 2-3/week directly from camgirl B, but I don't check them because I don't feel like it.

Tonight after I checked all of camgirl B's snaps, I get a direct snap from camgirl A.

So basically, camgirl A asked camgirl B to spy on me and let her know when I read her snap so she can send me one without looking desperate. That's how I'm reading this.

I'm still working on fixing my phone, using my tablet for SC when I feel like it.

I don't feel like hooking up tonight. I want to move past the snapchat bullshit and get her number and hang out when I feel like it. Benefits of SC is you know when they've read your messages, and they probably use it more anyways. She owes me a birthday dinner, and I owe her some spankings.

I'm fairly certain she's into me, and I don't plan on spending anymore money on her (she gets plenty of that from the site). Although I'm dominant in bed, I have a hard time escalating to that point.

Also I'm probably going to move away in 1-2 months to travel abroad. I know I could reign her in and keep her as my long-term sub, and only let her have girls if I'm not around. I don't care if she's a cam girl, it's not morally wrong to me. But I'm still learning about escalating and all that, so just looking for some advice for now.