Advice for a friend who is into blackpill stuff

AssistTemporary8422 · 2025-01-15T16:10:38+00:00

I'd point out that the vast majority of straight people also disagree with the blackpill too. Since you are gay you know what its like to be attracted to a man and its not all about looks, even though guys are stereotypically focused on looks. Point out too that you have been around straight couples and seen a lot of counter examples. The truth is many of these pilled people are autistic. They struggle because of autism not looks or feminists or whatever. And autistic people tend to not understand how socializing works and create these overly simplistic black and white frameworks for trying to understand attraction.

Specialist_Key6832 · 2025-01-15T20:01:37+00:00

You can remind him that most people don't need to undergo expensive, dangerous surgeries to be happy in life and find love.

Blackpill ideology is far too extreme: it highlights superstars and actors who have had surgeries for their noses, breasts, or taken steroids, among other things, and then attempts to create a universal rule for success, claiming it’s unattainable unless you do the same.

Moreover, billionaires get divorced, and superstars are cheated on all the time. Instead of concluding that looks alone aren’t the key to happiness and success in life, they double down by arguing that if even these people "fail," then there’s little hope for the rest of us.

oldcousingreg · 2025-01-15T22:00:34+00:00

Tell him that a) anything ending in -pill is a bullshit cult and b) the real red/blue pills were created by trans women and has nothing to do with pill ideology.

PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2025-01-15T21:10:53+00:00

I know this isn’t relevant, but how can someone be both gay and asexual? I’m honestly curious. You dont have to answer if it’s too personal.

Martian_Flex_876 · 2025-01-16T13:40:50+00:00

If its healthy then its fine imo. People do need to understand how important looks can be in life, and improving oneself can never hurt. But once all the improvement is done, then it should go away. Ive seen people going down this rabbithole, starting as "what hairstyle suits my faceshape" and end up being those social outcasts, people who only have one thing to say, "Bro I will save up 10k for my jaw upward alignment dislocation yada yada surgery, and get a limb lengthening to go from 5'8 to 6'1, and then girls will be all over me. ITS OVER FOR YOU COPERS HAHA" (English isnt my first language so pardon me for these noncoherent set of phrases LMAO)

Not just one incident, but many. Since your friend is also on the spectrum, he has a higher chance of falling into this. Just make sure its healthy and keep observing his behaviour, but at the end of the day its his life and his choices, you cannot give him some magic spell that would make him forget it all.

redditmaxima · 2025-01-15T15:47:51+00:00

Just find a way to hack society. As he is smart, he'll find it. Do not follow advice made for socially active people. Instead - form large circle of female friends. Slowly. Using online communication first, your hobbies. You need to show to girl your inner world, your real interest in her instead of your face (initially!).
After this find a way to be more social, but in your own way.

Black pill is just coping way to find reason to do nothing.

Title	Advice for a friend who is into blackpill stuff
Author	Superb-Ear3194
Upvotes	6
Comments	17
Date	January 15, 2025 3:35 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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