Approaching mixed sets, experiences?

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-01-21T05:11:31+00:00

Approach and open the men first before shifting attention towards the women.

On the dance floor where its loud, you can just ignore the men alltogether.

Often these groups have AFCs eyeing for the same girl and they can act up like a child, so you want to isolate as soon as possible when possible. Choose to escalate verbally instead of physically when in front of friends.

To the guy who ignored you, he is called an AMMOGER. These are assholes who steals the girls you have worked very hard to hook. The way to deal with them is to ignore them and pretend he doesn't exist or shoo him away with something like "why dont you try those women instead"

In any regards, the ammoger will try to make you look needy. Its almost a lose lose if a ammoger gets in, so the best way to deal with them is to prevent them frlm coming in

I touched on this briefly in my nightclub guide "amog" section.

In your specific instance it might be actually good that an ammoger got in because it makes it easier for you to isolate. In a two set i dont mind ammogers joining, as long as i think i can control the situation. But this is very nuaced, so i dont recommend trying this.

ExtraordinaryBeetles · 2025-01-21T06:03:35+00:00

Mixed sets are easy as fuck, relatively. If there are some people within the group that are dating other people, you display any value at all and you're mildly suitable for the girls in the group, they will push the single girls towards you. One qualifying question: "How do you guys know each other?" will tell you most of what you need to know about the set.

At worst you blow the set and walk away, the other options are: Making friends, doing things, meeting girls. So you get numbers, make plans and bounce. If you're not interested in any of it then just ghost the plans.

epimpstyle · 2025-01-21T08:43:15+00:00

Why bother with how to approach a mixed set? Aren't there enough girls on the street? It is a tendency of every beginner to put themselves in the most difficult situations and then wonder how to solve the situation. If you're not a beginner, you never ask, but if you are a beginner, don't make it harder than it already is.

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2025-01-22T19:23:41+00:00

So it depends .

Some guys are friendly, other guys who are "orbiters" and have been waiting to be with those chicks for a long time will not be .

It's irrelevant anyway. If you want to get the girl you can get to her wether those guys like it or not .

You just have to be calibrated and socially intelligent.

In a nutshell dominate those guys in such a friendly way that they don't even perceive it as you getting over them .

Then make an observation to the girl . You're in. You can talk to her

Title	Approaching mixed sets, experiences?
Author	sumimigaquatchi
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	January 20, 2025 3:52 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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