I’m a 19 year old (m) sophomore in college and recently have been romantically seeing a 22 year old international student who has a boyfriend of 3 years back home. She initially came onto me a few months ago, leading us to spending multiple nights per week together, usually with me sleeping over at her place. She would text me constantly and basically love bombed me. Over winter break she texted me constantly, and now that we are back for the spring semester we haven’t talked about seeing each other but she wants me to bring her to my hometown as “friends”. I really like this girl but I understand that because she clearly cheated on her boyfriend, she would do the same to me. It brings me so much pain thinking about how I will never fully have her, causing me to be miserable whenever we’re not texting. I want to move on from her but it’s so difficult when she gives me mixed signals and inconsistent attention. She also recently texted one of my good friends calling him cute, which I haven’t confronted her about yet. Any advice and or insight to this situation would be greatly appreciated.