Do common misandrist TikTok lives like "does men's mental health matter?" make anyone here a bit sad and want to make you stop being a feminist?

TeddyRuxpinsForeskin · 2025-02-18T22:38:05+00:00

Whenever I come across a video where they talk about men or women I just skip it entirely. It's such a useless debate it's the worst form of brainrot and talking about it doesn't help anyone. We should focus more on our similarities not our differences.

Young_Old_Grandma · 2025-02-18T23:03:49+00:00

I think mental health is important for everyone. Regardless of sex.

Life is tough. We need all the help we can get.

MkLiam · 2025-02-19T18:12:44+00:00

Feminism was never supposed to be infected with misandry the way it is today.

Isphus · 2025-02-18T23:12:28+00:00

Can you name a single right men in your country have and women don't?

No?

Then it is literally impossible for you to be a feminist.

Thank you for coming to my TED talk.

iiji111ii1i1 · 2025-02-18T22:50:59+00:00

Wait there are still feminists in 2025?

KikiYuyu · 2025-02-19T02:39:07+00:00

Rampant misandry caused me to stop identifying as a feminist almost a decade ago

flowerofhighrank · 2025-02-19T03:42:33+00:00

It's heartbreaking. Men feel lost and alone. Even if you know you're worth something, the constant refrain of 'men deserve to be alone' and 'nobody cares, ha ha' can harden your heart.

Effective-Boss-6650 · 2025-02-21T14:03:53+00:00

The only reason it’s justified is if he was misogynistic first, goes both ways, but women will complain about men making inappropriate comments yet some women go and comment “raw next question” and alot of just straight up rude stuff because it is socially acceptable to make fun of men but if men make fun of woman somehow it is just soo different, so ive noticed alot of these “feminists” who believe in equals rights are contradicting theirself and everything they stand for

LiesofC · 2025-02-18T22:37:16+00:00

No one here is a feminist

Just_an_user_160 · 2025-02-18T23:16:32+00:00

I'm not a feminist lol

Phone-Pension-904 · 2025-02-20T16:08:39+00:00

Surprised this sub is still kicking. Mods must have missed it

Content_Spirit_8287 · 2025-02-19T15:52:11+00:00

I stopped being a feminist in 2019. Why are you a feminist though?

tiredofthebites · 2025-02-18T23:15:39+00:00

That's funny. The few misandrists I've encounter love to bring up how deranged men are killer's of women and scum. So yeah. I think men's mental health probably matters if you want men to stop going postal and killing women.

StartOk1500 · 2025-02-18T23:00:43+00:00

Sad part is these ones that have not gone full main stream yet won't get much attention. Because only those of us who use TikTok a lot know about the ones that haven't become widely popular like Men vs. Bear or KAM. I know which trend you're talking about and it still for the most part is in only in the misandrist circles of TikTok and doesn't leave that circle much. TikTok literally still kept all the major misandrists and celebrates them even.

RyanG7 · 2025-02-19T03:13:11+00:00

Feminist, menist, idgaf. I'm all about equality no matter the race, gender, etc etc. I treat every individual with kindness, but hate people as a whole. I will fight for women to be treated as an equal, but I will also fight for men when that isn't the case. Empathy is my mantra. Men have had their own stupid takes such as "Your body, my choice". At the end of the day, we are all humans. There is stupidity on every side of this circle and you can only debate with those willing to listen. For those that don't, they are a lost cause and all you can do is hope that someone they actually listen to can help them see some sense. But don't let them affect you. The ones that criticize us the hardest have no idea what being a man comes with

redbettafish2 · 2025-02-18T22:57:56+00:00

No. Every movement has crazy extremists that straight up miss the mark. Feminism is no exception. Just because these people are loud (aka they have a platform) doesn't mean they represent the other 99% of people within a movement/group.

Also Tiktok uses a feedback algorithm. I don't get these people on my fyp at all. It may be common for you, but it isn't for me and likely not for a lot of people. If you find the content distressing and don't wish to see it, press and hold your finger on the screen when the live pops up and select "not interested." it may take a week or 2 to scrub your fyp from them. Also, interact with other live creators who don't fall into this category to better help align the algorithm.

Edit: this may be one of my most controversial takes on reddit. Watching the votes bounce around has been interesting. Im batting about a 50% average at the moment

2nd edit: looks like I'm in the negative boys.

Fledbeast578 · 2025-02-19T20:10:33+00:00

By that logic, they're personally justified being misandrist because of how some men talk about women

redpanda3749 · 2025-02-19T03:15:52+00:00

If some tiktok lives make you reconsider your position as a feminist than your not a real feminist

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