I'd love to hear how your nesting experience went. How long did you nest? Was difficult or not so bad? Did you regret it? Pros/cons?

And feedback would be really helpful!

My wife and I are separating and I am contemplating nesting. My youngest is 13 but the older two are in university.

I can't fathom nesting for an extended period of time. We went to look at a one-bedroom apartment and it felt like I was rewinding 25 years of my life. The thought of sharing a small apartment makes me feel very anxious and makes me feel like I'm prolonging the inevitable.

I honestly would prefer to sell the house so I can get a place on my own and figure out a good custody arrangement. And let the older two decide where they want to be.

My wife and I are currently in the same house and I know it will be hard to wait till I can find a place I can afford (and still be able to retire before I'm like 87!!)