So red pill I have a bit of a story and a question to follow. 1st of I met this woman a few years ago through mutual friends we hit it off just fucked for a few months then began a LTR. Obviously the sex declined dramatically even getting to the point where we had to use lube because all of a sudden I'm hurting her vagina.

Fast forward a year and a half we are happy together and the time seemed right so I popped the question. She said yes was thrilled with excitement and we had sex for the next three nights.

Fast forward 3 months into the engagement and we're having sex once or twice in two weeks and it's mostly passionless starfish sex. Our friends are telling me she's different with me then she was with ex's (example omg baby I love you so much ect) doesn't happen with us which I'm fine with, but all of a sudden passionless starfish....no affection. Help me out here red pill Thanks in advance