A repost since there are some things I wanted to add. OK so to sum things up, when I was 14 I was being molested,raped and blackmailed for 8 months straight. My ex gf(2months now) was almost raped and used it as an excuse whenever I did something she didn't like(very rarely). One time I couldn't take it anymore and exploded at her. After hearing my whole story she just said that it isn't the same, that she had it worse and that I should not use it as an excuse. I broke up with her in that moment. All of that made me depressed and almost lead me to suicide. Many people took her side in the argument(mostly women, some men) and never gave a fuck about how it affected me and whenever I wanted to talk to anyone I just gave up since I knew it wasn't gonna be acknowledged. There are only 2 people I can talk to about it but I still fear of being judged even tho i know they won't judge. It sucks. Sorry I had to vent a bit since there was something recently that happened that triggered the bad memories and had to get rid of it. Thank you for reading and stay strong. Feel free to ask me anything in the comments, I'll try to reply to all of them.