What would be the best approach for this if I’m wanting to hook up with a girl? Usually i’d 100% agree that it makes more sense to invite a woman over after you’ve actually met first/went on a date and you both vibed (obviously I met the said woman on a dating app so we’ve never met before). However, I have a buddy, and I don’t know how he does it, but he always seems to somehow get the girl to come to his place or he goes to hers without even meeting them yet? Somehow he is able to land meeting at his/her place without a date or anything. How would I do this without just being too straight up and seeming desperate just asking “hey want to come over?” Or something out of no where? How can I text better/build a good enough vibe over text to have a woman comfortable enough to come over that quick? 9 times out of 10 he ends up hooking up with them as well. Am I missing something? I’m probably approaching it completely wrong because I have never had it happen that way. Any tips?