How do you guys deal with the mental side of things when pulling girls in the club?

CoachSlyDating · 2025-03-17T21:34:58+00:00

The first rule is to have fun. If you aren’t having fun you will never pull. Have as much fun as possible.

Even worse than not having fun is getting jealous because another guy is pulling. Girls can sense that you are in scarcity and needy and will be repelled by it.

Approach as much as possible. You should be in set almost the entire night. You won’t have time to think about what some other dude is doing if you are chatting up chicks.

DaygameCode · 2025-03-17T22:44:52+00:00

Be fulfilled without girls and stop comparing yourself to others.

It’s ok to want girls to share your part of your happiness with them.

It’s not ok to need girls to be happy and content with yourself.

Instead of seeing it as a rejection of you, or as a measure of your worth, see it as lack of connection.

Seems like you are trying to get any girl for the sake of it, treating them all as disposable and replaceable, because ultimately your goal is just to prove to yourself that you also can get a woman, just like the people you compared yourself to…

In other words, it’s not about the girl it’s about you. Your need for validation, your need to get confirmation that you are worth something and that you are not lesser than others. That needy vibe can be felt by women even if they can’t exactly word it, and it’s off putting to them.

Zorturan · 2025-03-17T22:19:21+00:00

Just stay in the moment and have fun, and lock eyes with a girl dancing next to you and smile, then go for the dance

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-03-18T05:00:45+00:00

100%. Have felt like that for a whole year at a time. Letting go of that feeling is actually what fixed it. You’ll never really get any results being in that state all the time

Dandys3107 · 2025-03-18T05:40:37+00:00

I would reconsider this mindset of expecting everything to happen your way and instantly. These guys probably have much more experience and effort put into their practice. You will get there some day too, probably pretty soon, just keep improving your sexually attractive traits and grind your seduction technique.

Entire_Bee_7648 · 2025-03-18T22:21:08+00:00

Bro said he's on the front lines

TheKanonFoder · 2025-03-17T22:54:57+00:00

I don't pour girls from the club If you can pull a girl from the club other people have pull the girl from the club low quality

The_Ol_Grey_Mare · 2025-03-17T22:36:58+00:00

Punch yourself in the cock

Title	How do you guys deal with the mental side of things when pulling girls in the club?
Author	SteroidPotato
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	March 17, 2025 9:24 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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