What should I do if I like the girl phisically, but don’t like her personality and she is in love with me

Visualize_ · 2025-03-21T17:52:34+00:00

Yeah it's not going to work. Maybe in the short term it kinda will work but it's ultimately a ticking time bomb because she will become unhappy with the arrangement. It's just the reverse situation where a guy likes a girl and deludes himself he is fine being friends when he ultimately always is looking to convert it to something more, and is delusionally optimistic he could make a girl change her mind about him. I was sort of in a similar situation and I just immediately ended it to save myself the headache down the road. My situation was I said I only wanted something casual and she didn't but she was verbally just lying to me when she said she was ok with a casual relationship.

KingTrey7 · 2025-03-21T17:40:54+00:00

Well if you’ve made it to her that clear you don’t want her then you don’t have any obligation to maintain the level of communication she wants. Either you want her or you don’t, and it’s pretty simple what to do once you have that answer.

Lone_StreetCone · 2025-03-21T17:50:27+00:00

Well you must ask yourself. are you going to let your penis dictate (lol) what you do, and take advantage of this woman's infatuation with you; so you can use her body? What if she becomes emotionally invested, and then realizes she's being used? How will that effect her? Are you that guy? Or will you stand firm with your boundary, because you understand that anything else, would be manipulative at best and predatory at worst. If you're a man of integrity and respectable character, you'll be assertive, but not insensitive. Take her feelings into consideration when you explain why you can't let things progress at the present moment, despite how much you'd love to. Then explain that it's not about your feelings, it's a matter of principle and you're a man of principle. You already knew what to do though. I think you were just testing me.

hunterpua · 2025-03-21T17:56:47+00:00

Easy. Move on. There are many women that would fall into the category of someone you like physically.

Just go for the ones who wouldn't be heartbroken when you're not willing to be anything more to them than a fuck buddy.

And you can also go for the ones you are physically attracted to and actually want to commit to as well.

TheKanonFoder · 2025-03-21T18:52:56+00:00

Make her break up with you. Tell her. You have a banging body but I just wish you wouldn't talk. Typically she'll dump your ass You can both go your own ways.

Curious-Mix5456 · 2025-03-21T20:01:08+00:00

Thanks everyone for the advices! Guess I have to make myself clear again!

Title	What should I do if I like the girl phisically, but don’t like her personality and she is in love with me
Author	Curious-Mix5456
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Comments	6
Date	March 21, 2025 5:26 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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