What's a good spot to meet a woman and still have some fun

Virtual_Ad_4817 · 2025-03-28T17:07:37+00:00

Coffee shop. Or drinks. Don't overthink it.

TonyRavioli24 · 2025-03-28T17:30:08+00:00

Brother, we don't know where you live, what's near you, what's near this girl. We can't hold your hand. Try something, anything but just own it. Or do some due diligence and find a place you think will work. As someone else said, don't overthink it.

HoldYourFire87 · 2025-03-28T16:39:30+00:00

Your mom's house?

That's where we all go.

🎣

Electrical_Owl_8169 · 2025-03-28T17:49:36+00:00

her kids

Run.

hunterpua · 2025-03-28T19:01:03+00:00

You know what I always say in these situations?

You're supposed to be the best person to answer this question, because you know her a lot more than random people on Reddit do.

But I'm not gonna blame you because most guys are taught wrong.

I'm gonna teach you what to do next time.

When you're flirting with a girl and getting to know her, instead of just getting to know her randomly just for the sake of making her feel comfortable and so you can get your jokes & flirty lines in while not really caring about the information she gives you, get to know her with the intention of finding commonalities.

And more specifically, activities related to your common interests.

You don't have to go big with it either. You got simple examples from others here like coffee shops.

If you just knew what to look for in conversation and were better at taking note of the things she tells you about herself, it would be a lot easier for you to identify the perfect coffee shop for you two to hang out in.

Or...if you did take note of a bunch of information you would know that coffee shops are a bad idea because you get really jittery when you have coffee and what do you know? she does too!

See what I'm saying here?

You don't just arbitrarily ask her questions to create the illusion that you're getting to know her. There should be a point to every conversation you have.

And just to be clear, I'm not telling you to say, "Hey, I wanna take you out for coffee but I get really jittery when I have coffee. How bout you?"

You should be gathering this information while you're just shooting the shit and a date hasn't been mentioned or planned yet. Literally at the point when you don't even know if you'll be getting her contact info.

A lot of the time when I meet someone, I already get some information on what dates would be good for us immediately after breaking the ice.

After your opener and maybe a little joke, it's totally fine to just say, "What do you do for fun?" and right off of that question you can identity all kinds of common interests that both of you can enjoy on a date.

That's literally around 30 seconds in from me meeting someone for the very first time.

Doing it like this gets girls to not only spell it out for you but even sell the date themselves.

For example, I once went on a date with a girl in a bookstore that travels around the world on a massive ship.

I had zero fucking idea about that, it was the girl who brought it up in conversation.

And how did I get her to sell it?

-"That sounds wild. Tell me more about it."

And then she talked it up a bunch and all I had to say was, "That's sounds like a lot of fun. We should go do that."

And there you have it.

Knowing this is also one of the reasons why I can easily seduce women on day 1 of arriving in a city or country that I've never been to before.

You don't need to know shit about what's in your city, just get to know women and they will tell you all you need to know.

This is stuff to keep in mind for next time. You can and should also be gathering information while you're at the date so that it'll be so much easier to identify things to do for future dates.

Now for your current situation you have two options:

-Just pick one of the many suggestions here if they feel right to you or...

-Use the suggestions here to help you brainstorm while recalling the information that you do remember from getting to know her and come up with a decision based on that.

Mouse_God · 2025-03-28T19:18:09+00:00

A cafe, a park with coffee to go. Spend time and see if she likes you. Then she will come to your place for any stupid cause like cooking with you and watching a movie afterwards.

Title	What's a good spot to meet a woman and still have some fun
Author	somethinlikeshieva
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	March 28, 2025 4:32 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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