How to go from cuddling to sex

everydayguy_ · 2025-04-06T10:09:44+00:00

Buddy stop overthinking it and just take her pants off. That’s literally all you have to do.

riordanajs · 2025-04-06T09:01:19+00:00

Edit as this is important: It won't be smooth. It will be awkward, sweaty, clueless and silly. You're horny teenagers, not porn stars. Just go with it and have zero expectation.

1st: Bring a condom. Do you have one at hand?

2nd. To know what she likes, you could ask. But you're 18 and probably don't know that much about looking for subtle cues with innocent, yet seually subtexted conversations. And women, for some reason, like to appear mysterious, so you need to learn to read them. Basically you need to learn to talk to your subconscious.

Touching is not rocket science... She likes you and is turned on by you. She wants more as she invited you to her place. Very good. Those butt-presses were an invitation to escalate. Start with putting your hand inside her shirt and pet her stomach and sexually tease by going near to the breasts, but not quite at them. If she is ok with that, you can slowly escalate to her breasts. If she has a skirt, go under it, touching her legs and ass. Make out with her (long, tongue kisses) in between the escalations.

After that you can try to take her shirt off, kiss her stomach, take her bra off (skill to learn: how to take bra off with one hand whíle making out) and go on top of her. You can start kissing her stomach, breast and then going down, kissing her pubic areas, while removing her panties, and then tickilng her outer labia with your fingers. Then you can start rubbing the clitoris, can't recommend going down on a girl during the first time. If you get her panties off, take off your clothes, put on a condom and awkwardly try to get in. It will probably hurt, and it's ok to not finish on the first time if one of you can't take it. It will get better, then it will be the best thing ever for a while.

At some point you both will be too horny to stop yourself, and things will escalate by themselves, that's called nature. She's a virgin, so you need to be open for hesitation. And you have to be open to her stopping it at any time. If she does the best thing to do is to be cool with it, jerk it off discreetly later and let her to an impression that she's missing out, not you.

I hope this helps. When you get a bit of experience, look up eating her out and squirting her instructions from the pua space. And remember to get reciporacted with blowjobs, you don't want to miss out on it.

gaifogel · 2025-04-06T12:42:42+00:00

Kiss her neck, whole back and chest (not necessarily the boobs, can be upper chest, kiss her nipples and ask if she likes it) for a while and watch what happens. Also kiss / lick her ear and see if she likes it.

Basically men get horny very fast while women take a while. You gotta escalate it little by little..after she's horny from the above actions you can touch her down there (gently, ask her for guidance on what she likes) then at some point she will be begging for it

Ciabbata · 2025-04-06T15:24:54+00:00

Sounds like you’re both feeling things out (literally and emotionally), which is totally normal for a first relationship. The key is to read her cues in real time—if she’s being physically playful like that, you can build on it slowly. Light kisses on the neck, gentle touch along her hips or lower back while cuddling—then pause and see how she reacts. If she leans in or guides your hand, follow her lead. And don’t be afraid to ask in the moment—"This okay?" can be really sexy when said with confidence and care.

throwawayuser_999 · 2025-04-07T21:30:18+00:00

Definitely do some foreplay, start off slow and spicy things up gradually! For example like soft kisses then tease her with neck kiss or caress with larger body areas like her back or thighs. Remember consent is sexy so if she isn’t ready for it don’t push things further! And it should be mutual before you proceed to initiate intercourse

theveganshaper36 · 2025-04-08T03:26:05+00:00

Touch her bean and keep massaging there, kiss her neck while doing that, whisper her name slowly in her ears its the pre game that gets the girls crazy so pre game a lot, play with her boobs then be an animal rip her pants out throw her on the bed grab her from the hips and eat her like is the last meal of your life then proceed to put your buddy in only after you feel she is so wet she cant hold no more

heihei69420 · 2025-04-06T15:46:23+00:00

Thanks for the advice guys!

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-07T06:43:43+00:00

Everything starts with kissing. Then do what the other people said.

ProtonTot · 2025-04-07T13:11:38+00:00

Also, do watch a tutorial on how to use a condom. It kind of ruins the mood if both of you are clueless about it.

yaa__sshhhh · 2025-04-10T06:00:43+00:00

Bro just look at her hairs and say “your hairs are looking so amazing “ and uhh wanna touch it “ and go closer to her then just try to smelling it and say “nice fragrance !! “ go for 2 -3 times then say”your fragrance is so good like will smell for years without oxygen 😂 “ here uhh exaggerated she’ll start laughing!! Then slowly start cuddling then try to hold her tight and start kissing on her neck , give a numbers of passionate love bite and simultaneously kiss her ears she’ll turn on and stop ✋!!! For 15 seconds then look at her lips she’ll definitely start to kiss you and boom uhh done ✅ and followed by 2 easy steps , start to kiss hard as fuck and 1)put your hands on her boobs and start pressing it while kissing her be so passionate !! 2) and when she’ll turn on completely just ask to her - to go downwards? If yes then just open her zip and put your fingers in her pants and start fingering her while kissing!! [ kissing is constant] and then stop kissing her rather then just put one hand in her pants and one hand on her boobs!!! She’ll like it for sure !!!

greensnxw · 2025-04-07T07:10:18+00:00

just send her to me lanat hai terepe😂

Title	How to go from cuddling to sex
Author	heihei69420
Upvotes	51
Comments	19
Date	April 6, 2025 7:26 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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