How to "seal the deal"?

Playful_Dot_537 · 2025-05-05T00:39:42+00:00

If you don't get physical with her first, in many cases coming home with you feels like a huge move to her safety wise and can also hit her "slut defense".

If you get physical with her first, especially if it gets hot and heavy, then coming home simply becomes a viable option for you both to "get a room" so she can feel comfortable being truly private with you.

TL; DR she needs to be comfortable with you AND she needs to want to get off. First.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2025-05-05T00:32:58+00:00

you seed the idea of her visiting your place during the interaction and make sure you kissed her passionately lol; otherwise even if she agress to go to your place, she might be even more resistant if you start escalating there; the kiss during dates in important there are a whole lot more things but go to the books instead lol;

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-05-05T01:43:45+00:00

Take your time and/or respect other's pace. Not everyone wants to sleep with a random day one stranger.

Glacier_Sama · 2025-05-05T04:45:23+00:00

Kiss her neck and behind her ear. THEN seal the deal.

that-dreamer · 2025-05-05T14:49:00+00:00

some light physical contact

Yeah this is your issue. You need to be like straight up making out with them to get 'em to agree to come over lol

Realistic-Load-1302 · 2025-05-05T21:04:36+00:00

What changed for me was understanding that “sealing the deal” isn’t about making a move at the end. It’s about setting the tone early. If you’re being fun, a little flirty, and creating light tension from the start, then things naturally escalate over time and it doesn’t feel like a switch you’re flipping later.

Also, don’t wait until the night’s wrapping up to bring up the next move. Sprinkle it casually earlier. Something like “we should continue this with a drink at mine later”, said halfway through, plants the seed without pressure. Then you just keep the energy going and if she’s feeling it, the move home feels natural.

Title	How to "seal the deal"?
Author	K_oSTheKunt
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	May 5, 2025 12:28 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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