I need Some Guidance

Fun_Character1888 · 2025-05-31T17:39:54+00:00

I’ve been at this for nearly two decades and I will tell you the most important thing is to constantly be hitting on chicks and asking them out and trying to get laid. It’s gotta become just who you are.

Sure books and stuff will help but do not distract yourself with that stuff if you’re not also constantly going out. It’s gotta be a lifestyle. Like I’ve hit up girls and they never got back to me but I didn’t even notice for weeks bc I was talking to other girls who were into me and ended up going out with them.

Here’s how I think about it. I’m a hunter - and hunters hunt. If a lion chases a gazelle and it gets away from him does he get depressed and go sit in a corner feeling bad about himself? No! He looks around and finds another gazelle and goes running after her.

9 / 10 approaches WILL be duds. Doesn’t matter. Every once in a while you’ll come across a girl who’s really into you and you’re really into her. Focus on those people.

Chiiiicckkeeennn · 2025-05-31T15:14:33+00:00

Fundamentals and rules of the game. by Steve Williams

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-05-31T16:00:12+00:00

Your best teacher is hands on experience and some critical thinking skills. Go out there and find out what your style of approach is and what comes naturally to you. You can even just simply start out with a, "Hi, my name is...."

The whole key to success is confidence that comes from within you and trusting in your instinct.

SithLordJediMaster · 2025-06-01T02:26:10+00:00

Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson

Mate: What Women Want by Tucker Max and Geoffrey Miller PhD

The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature by Geoffrey Miller PhD

Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating by David M Buss PhD

Why Women Have Sex: Understanding Sexual Motivations from Adventure To Revenge by David M Buss PhD and Cindy M Meston PhD

Either_Sundae6099 · 2025-06-01T20:15:55+00:00

Forget reading and conciously analysing shit.

Get something like Hypnotica's Masters Circle Hypnotalks or Collection of Confidence.

Listen to the hypno every night,

Then go out in evenings and introduce yourself to women, "Hi I am so and so". Watch the reactions change as you rewrite the shit in your head with the essence of being a Masters Circle Man.

Its easier to speak directly to the subconcious with hypno, than to just read book and acquire knowledge.

Also the Ross Jeffries Unstoppable Confidence. (confidence is never outdated).

offinthewoods10 · 2025-05-31T12:17:49+00:00

Models is really the only book you need. Other than that go get a job where you have to be social all day.

Title	I need Some Guidance
Author	Individual_Award_718
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Date	May 31, 2025 11:46 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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