Well, I have a girl who has a problem getting angry and likes to hang up on me after a good snap at me. I feel like since I've been reading TRP I've started showing more AF signs... giving less fucks, not calling her waiting for her to call me... when she makes some comments about shes gonna be busy and can't talk and things of that nature to gain a responce (shit tests) things I give a what ever attitude like "yeah ok, that's no problem"...

But in the past, once, she has lost her temper (yelled) and hung up on me. I of course didn't call her back. After a couple of hours she called me and acted like nothing ever happened I told her I wasn't speaking to her until she apologized. She refused an apology and I told her it sounded like I had no reason to continue the conversation because I just told her I'm not going to say anything to her until she apologizes. I was already driving across the state line to go meet up with her. I wasn't going to turn around, so my plan was to get a hotel room until she apologized then spend the weekend together how we'd planned. well, when I get in town she told me she wrote a letter to apologize and I came over and she read it and cried and apologized later on. So we had great sex and I told her I forgave her.

Today, I tell her I am going for a hike. I am planning with some buddies when she calls me and refusing to allow her to take me from my mission I don't answer, I continue planning. I call her back once I'm done... honestly I was nearly done anyways so it was all of 5 minutes later I call her back. She screams "I don't want to talk anymore" and hangs up on me. I don't call her back, go for my hike and enjoy it. She texts me 6 hours later and says she is home. I tell her to call me. She calls. I asked her why she hung up on me. She said she was angry with her mom and she didn't want to talk to me anymore because she was pissed. I told her that she could have said "I can't talk right now" and then said "bye" and I said "bye" and then hung up.. that would be understandable. However, yelling at me and then hanging up won't be tolerated and I am not going to be disrespected like that. I told her I don't to/am not going to speak to her for a while, maybe a day or so because of what she did.

She asked, so we're in a relationship, and your not going to talk to me because I hurt your feelings? I respond, I am not going to be disrespected like that, it just isn't going to happen. She apologizes (sounds like she is reading a script not actually meaning it) for not calling back after hanging up on me sooner. I tell her I don't give a shit about that, I am not going to have her snap on me, then hang up on me, I won't. I told her I need space, I will call her when I'm ready to talk again. She says OK I'll talk to you later then (in a I don't give a fuck sort of way). I say OK, and hang up.

Shortly after she Facebook texts me (which she can see I read) saying I planned to do this to her, she is saying not talking to her is going to make her not be close to me anymore and how its going to effect our relationship by pulling us apart and to enjoy the rest of my week.

I'm resisting the urge to text her and try to rationalize to her that I didn't plan this, that I didn't plan her snapping at me and consequences of her actions are hers to take care of. Actually, I am resisting talking at all

Guys, take it from here, ears are open. BTW, this red pill... it really, really... man. ha.

Edit 1: She text me saying she "feels like this is some kind of test." She said "its amusing, very amusing." Then said " I for one will not allow myself to get worked up over YOU any longer. If you don't wanna talk then thats just fine and dandy with me"

Edit 2: she put on facebook a meme that says "I'm not apologizing because you don't have the balls to handle my personality" Its this like marilyn monroe chick meme thing...