Let’s say you meet a woman in cold approach. You get her number or she gets yours and y’all start chatting. You guys go on a first date. What are things you do to make her feel secure, safe and comfortable?

Story: I went on a first date with a single mom who I wanted to smash, and we sat on the bench together and I put my arm on the ledge of the bench where her back was. And I said come here signalling for her to come closer and she said I made her feel uncomfortable so I just stopped.