Hey dudes. So I'm in my late 30s and there's not a single day that I don't think about the abuses that I let happen in my life while dating.

It's 2025, several studies show young women make on average more money than men and are also more accomplished in education.

There's no need for you to pay dates or to provide. Only pay in dates or provide if you 100% know that the girl will respect you. But often they will make you believe that they are respectable, but in the initial dating phase they are often fucking someone else while dating you. So be careful with your money.

Be careful with your knowledge. I have a good IT job and two of the girls I dated found out it would be nice to take knowledge from me so that they could get better jobs on IT themselves. One of these girls, I thought would be my wife someday so I had no problem in sharing knowledge with her. Knowledge, just like money, is a type of resource very valuable. She got a better job and later abandoned me. This was very painful when it happened around six years ago.

You are also in no obligation to be entertaining to anyone. You are in no obligation to display good conversation skills. You are in no obligation to make anyone laugh.

They should make you laugh too, if that's important for them. They should share their knowledge too.

Keep in mind that they often make rules for the guys they want a committed relationship with, making him wait months for sex, but they break these rules all the time if they find a fuck boy above their league willing to fuck them.

Don't feel that you have to display a lot of love to anyone. Just state your intentions. And then worry about yourself. You will be shocked at the amount of women that are 30 years old and still have the maturity level of a teenager when it comes to dating and understanding relationships. It's dangerous to follow these people. Follow your own instincts and the instinct of your male friends.

Protect yourself. It's wild out there. Be careful and don't get married or get in a committed relationship to a bad option out of desperation. The market needs to balance itself out once enough men have opted out due to bad conditions for them.

In the meantime focus on your goals. Get to a healthy body fat (10 to 20%). Exercise two times per week. Eat good food. Study and work. Focus on your work skills and education.

Have a good weekend.